The Christian belief in the existence of heaven and hell is often a source of confusion and misunderstanding. One common critique leveled at Christianity by non-believers and some theologians is that the church emphasizes hell over the concept of not being in the presence of God in heaven. The crux of this debate is understanding why God's loving nature would include an eternal torment instead of simply excluding unbelievers from heaven. It is critical to address this question while keeping the broader theological context in mind.

The Nature of Hell in the Bible and Theology

Christian doctrine usually doesn't portray hell as an eternal, conscious torture inflicted intentionally by a malevolent God. Biblically, hell, also known as Gehenna (Matthew 5:29-30, Matthew 10:28), or "the lake of fire" mentioned only in the Revelation 20:14-15, is representative of destruction or ruin, not necessarily everlasting punishment. This view is coherent with the Hebrew and Greek etymologies for the words translated into "hell." The former stems from a valley used for sacrificial offerings, a context devoid of any metaphysical association; the latter derives from a term meaning "to destroy by fire."

The idea of "eternal conscious punishment" did not crystallize until late medieval theology and was influenced by Aristotelian philosophy. Early Christian literature, like Augustine's City of God and works by Clement and Origen, frequently allude to annihilationism, i.e., a final end to the souls that fail to repent during their lifetimes. The perspectives of hell have evolved in Church history, but the notion of eternal torment is relatively modern and has been increasingly contested within theological circles.

The Focus on Hell or Exclusion from Heaven in Christianity

The apparent focus on hell might be misleading, given that the Church promotes the immeasurably greater gift of salvation and grace. A predominant emphasis on hell may, unintentionally, fuel a misconception of God being punitive rather than merciful. While the New Testament does mention hell, Christianity as a whole primarily communicates the glory and significance of Christ and the hope of redemption that comes with accepting Him.

Furthermore, the concept of the "lost" in Christianity is closely tied with the grace of forgiveness and the ability to choose ohterwise. The appeal of redemption and the transcendent power of God's love can be more attractive when contrasted against the shadow of what could befall the unrepentant. This presentation is not meant as scare-tactics or to portray God as wrathful; but it illustrates the cost of choosing away from God, just as any other life-altering decision might entail consequences.

Conclusion

Although it seems like Christianity places too much focus on hell, the core message remains centered on salvation, God's loving nature, and His call for redemption. The strong emphasis on the possibility of damnation could be seen as a sobering reminder of the alternative. As in all areas of theology, understanding requires contextualization within the whole of the faith, ensuring a balanced view that encompasses divine love and grace, without overlooking or diminishing the freedom of choice inherent to our existence.